I have a 12 year old son with ODD and I just want to say that after reading your stories I am crying. I can relate to you all and I am sorry for it as I do not wish this on anyone. After a meltdown yesterday I am broken. Utterly broken and trying to find the strength. He has no idea at the devastation he brings. My story is the same as yours and I read my situations in so many of your posts. Prayers to all of you. Hope and love.