My 9 year old has ODD and someone rang cyfs on me. I now have to go to a family group conference and, admit my child needs care and protection. They say he is likely to be emotionally abused or neglected. They have no idea, and don't care about, the abuse I have suffered from him. They tell me everything is my fault. I know parents on here understand the terrible situation I am in but how do I get that through to them? There have been days when I have felt like giving up the fight and handing him over to cyfs but I love him dearly and he can be the sweetest boy when he, wants to be. I just really didn't need a government organization telling me what a bad parent I am when most days it is a struggle just to get up and face the day.