Lately, I have been feeling guilty and full of shame from the way my father treated me when I was a little girl, from age 2-16...I feel as though the abuse was MY fault....
Why do I feel like this?!!? I know in my own mind that I didn't do anything to deserve to be abused by him, and then by my ex-boyfriend, and then from my step-father...
but lately I have been feeling awfully guilty for their actions....WHY?!!?!?
not to be impersonal or anything, but this site might help?
my own opinion is, when you were young you didnt have the understanding you have now. right now you are thinking of the abuse happening and you having the understanding you have now. does tht make sense? when the abuse happened you didnt realize wat was happening but now u see wat happened and maybe even noticed different signs tht appeared but u didnt always kno this. srry if this is confusing >.<
my own opinion is, when you were young you didnt have the understanding you have now. right now you are thinking of the abuse happening and you having the understanding you have now. does tht make sense? when the abuse happened you didnt realize wat was happening but now u see wat happened and maybe even noticed different signs tht appeared but u didnt always kno this. srry if this is confusing >.<
http://www.kalimunro.com/article_sexualabuse.html