Compulsive Liars Community Group
Figure out why you lie. People often develop the habit of lying from a very early age. Perhaps you learned as a child that you could get your way more often if you lied, and you continued the practice as a teenager and beyond as a way to navigate the difficult situations we all encounter in life. Knowing the root cause of your lying is the first step to making a change.
I'm 37 years of age and this has been my first real relationship. I always been the type of person that never wanted to be tied down. He was a crush but I didn't think I would have fall for him and I did. Throughout the relationship I would shy away not see him for weeks but I would stay in contact. At first I didn't see it as a problem but now I do. I've noticed that I'm more attentive to him when he is upset with me or doesn't show me attention. When things are good it's great no arguing just that gets along and love each other. He has been so good to me and all I do is hurt him. He doesn't want to be with me say I have no chance again but I need to show him I will change that I can be who I need to be in this relationship for the both of us, I have to want to do this for myself as well not just him. I do have faith that we will be happy together again, no matter how long it may take. He is big on action so my actions will be my main goal
It’s my first time to share on a group like this and hope we all can help each other.