Just letting you know what happened.  Wednesday afternoon the site said I was banned.  I contacted them via e-mail responses to a spammer I had reported.  (Always need to keep the site safe.)  I was heartbroken that some would feel I had abandoned them.  An hour ago, I got an e from DS that said the banning was an error, so I am back with the many people I care about.  Healing hugs to all, including me.