Codependents working their recovery Community Group
Working on recovery
Detachment is such a hard process for the ones
we are attached to. I am and Was detached from
my family and i had Been for a long time.
My ex was a whole another case. I had no clue
i was still a codependent until during my separation.
I thought that mixed up dysfunctional young woman
was long gone.
She was only in hiding and working unconsciously
thru out my 30 year marriage. Somewhere i lost
myself and my own identity. Our life became all
about him and i let it. Don’t rock the boat to stay
and to be safe i thought. Now I am divorced at
the age of 62. That was not my plan.
I have been in recovery now for seven years
and i am barely scratching the surface of
my own issues and facing myself. Its a long
process that takes time, humility and Loads
of courage. HUGS
Dysfunction does really run deep and it’s hard work we have to be committed to change .
And end in recovery, its not easy.
We had so many unhealthy beliefs,
Thoughts, Feeling and emotions
from our Upbringing about ourselves
And others.
Change is hard. I use to cringe at
Hearing that said after my break
Up. I Also hated the AA term more
Will be revealed. Both i am okay
With now.
Life is what it is “Live life on Life’s
terms”. That takes a lot to get there
And to stop trying to force solutions,
HUGS
Hugs xxxx