Detachment is such a hard process for the ones
we are attached to. I am and Was detached from
my family and i had Been for a long time.
My ex was a whole another case. I had no clue
i was still a codependent until during my separation.
I thought that mixed up dysfunctional young woman
was long gone.
She was only in hiding and working unconsciously
thru out my 30 year marriage. Somewhere i lost
myself and my own identity. Our life became all
about him and i let it. Don’t rock the boat to stay
and to be safe i thought. Now I am divorced at
the age of 62. That was not my plan.
I have been in recovery now for seven years
and i am barely scratching the surface of
my own issues and facing myself. Its a long
process that takes time, humility and Loads
of courage. HUGS
*disclaimer: I posted this to another group, but I think it may be more suitable in this one*I cannot tell you how excited I am to find this site. It's hard to deal with difficult family members as it is, but it's especially hard when all your friends and other family members are either tired of hearing about it, or don't get it. So, long story short, my mother drives me nuts. She's extremely...
Does anyone read or want the ACA dailies?i wont put them on if no one is interested.So much of our stuff is from our upbringingand childhood. Many people dont have aclue how deep it runs and what havoc itplays on us still as adults.