CHRISTIAN PARENTS of ESTRANGED ADULT CHILDREN Community Group
Estrangement makes it difficult to talk about with family, friends, neighbors and church members. Christians are NOT immune to broken families. Talk about your experiences with those who know how you feel and get positive support through your Christian faith...."In these last days difficult times will come, for men will be lovers of self...disobedient to parents,...
My ED is building her family at a dear cost . She had K 10 yrs ago and had a tumor on an ovary and was told not to have more children . She was not married to her husband at the time and I felt I should have had some say in what was happening and what was going on but she put him down as the person to contact , and make decisions for her should she go on life support there at the hospital . ( I almost died of shock , I couldn't even breathe ) She could have died from the labor and that tumor bursting . She lost an ovary and tube , of which she asked after she became pregnant again with C , she didn't remember anything about the emergency surgery that had happened . Then within a month of having K she had a gall bladder removed . She came to me 5 yrs ( about ) and asked me was it a birth defect and asked me if I had given her endometriosis . I explained that even tho she needed to speak to her Dr , that she did not get it from me . 2 weeks after she had C she had a light stroke while dressing the baby . her overall health is horrible . She weighs over 400 pounds . 2 yrs ago I bought her a Gym membership for 6 months at her request . She went 4 times . Her weight now is at 430 . She came to me about 1 1/2 yr ago and asked me if I had been having dreams of her being pregnant . ( I did with the other 2 babies ) I told her no . She miscarried a baby within 2 weeks . She was again told not to have any babies . Now I find she reopened her FB pages thru my son's FB pages , and she has a new son . She posted pics and video's of him . I was again shocked . But at least now I know she is alive and well as can be expected .
Since her estrangement , she has lost people in our family who love her , their passing was of no concern . She never acknowledged their death ... shameful as that is . She is just rebuilding her family .
her best friends from school , people she went to school with , female friends who know her well , she has just left them behind too . her best friend who lived with us for almost 5 yrs , married her brother when she became of age , has been left behind and deleted as friends everywhere ... for no reason .
All we can do is wait perhaps for her to come back to us ....
Since her estrangement , she has lost people in our family who love her , their passing was of no concern . She never acknowledged their death ... shameful as that is . She is just rebuilding her family .
her best friends from school , people she went to school with , female friends who know her well , she has just left them behind too . her best friend who lived with us for almost 5 yrs , married her brother when she became of age , has been left behind and deleted as friends everywhere ... for no reason .
All we can do is wait perhaps for her to come back to us ....
Her husband is the reason she has gained , he see's strippers on the side , lying and cheating on her , she has come to me 2 times in the past , long ago and told me what he does ( about 4 yrs ago ) and her self esteem is so dang low its unreal . I know the person she was long ago is hiding inside there somewhere ...