CHRISTIAN PARENTS of ESTRANGED ADULT CHILDREN Community Group
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edr1961
My DIL text me last night with a picture of my GS,the last day i saw him his skin was good we noticed he was a little broke out.But now they are in the rental house and his skin is broke out bad again they have all 3 dogs back are they stupid or are acting.Son will bring him over tomarrow for our weekly visit.God please help me keep my mouth shut.Please my friends pray for me.
edr1961
long story short gs really bad skin,3yrs old,they have 3 germanshepard size indoor dogs,rashes all time,went to allergist tells us he is not allergic to dogs i dont believe them,they say eggs,wheat,soy,pnutbutter wont let us see results of test.house caught fire 1 monthago they lost everything they stayed in hotel 1 month.Gs skin beautiful for the month cause no dogs,insurance company placed them inrental till home is built and allowed to bring the dogs its been 1 wk andskin is broke out .Gs supposed to comeover tomarrowbut son and dil said gs is sick and wont be over.This there pattern when he is sick its because they dont want us to see his skin.i told my dh this is medical neglect.I will be making some calls monday for advice with dyfs to see what can be done.we dont even know where they are at,we are not welcome because we dont want to be around the dogs.Son brings GS over and picks him up.
chocolatecat
Praying for you edr, and for your little gs too. Hugs.
lindajoan
edr, Please pray before making any calls. It would not be well received. God bless you and your precious gs.
sallyannlass
Dear edr, Why would your son lie to you about his allergies? I would be very careful and pray about your intended action to report your son and DIL as neglectful parents. What if they are correct that the allergies are not to the dogs? Then you may never see your son and his family again. I'm praying for you and your son's family.
edr1961
I think he is lying bout allergies for 1 i asked him if gs will be getting flushot he said no he didnt want him to have it,being a nurse you cant get flu shot if allergic to eggs,his wife loves the dogs i mean love the dogs she put the dogs even befor her daughter she told me herself she is allergic to dogs her daughter has a breathing machine,inhalers,rash on her also.And if he wasnt alergic to thedogs my son and dil would have waved the report in our face.I did pray and i will mind my own buisness.We have already been told son will beworking thanksgiving itoldhim i wasnt cooking anyway,but he said they will have something for christmas.My dh and i have decided we will not go they invite us cause of guilt and guilt only no thanks.I think i am at my breaking point.Dil does not have to like me i just want to see son and gs,i guess i am hurt beyond repair.I will listen to you my friends and pray
edr1961
Forgot to tell you my Dil loves the dogs so much she has therenames tattooed on her behind lol,and they have cages in the house they go in can you picture germansheperd size dogs in cages sitting inlivingroom and kitchen.My gs cant even go outside to play due to dog poop all over.What i am saying and ashamed to say my dil is a nasty.Just helping to draw a little bit ofa picture my son and gs clothes smelled like dog i cant say that right now cause they have new clothes due to fire,and dog hair everywhere you have tosee it to believe it and if you think they treat thedogs good they dont,what kind of a life is that for the dogs locked incages in the house,kicked around,screamed at.
whyonlychild
Prayers for you and for your precious little GS. May God enfold you in His care and love
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