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My DIL just text me and let meknow her son just had a new baby i didnt even know one was on the way,lol,Well then she asked if we were ok i didnt respond right away and she texted and asked if we had plans for tomarrow,I lied to her and said i was away till tomarrow.God forgive me,my grandson has so many hives she said that they have been up all night itching,crying but she wants to bring him to me so she can go see her new grandbaby,but i cant i cant stand to see my grandbaby suffer i am protecting myself i will breakdown.It took all i had not to breakdown the other day when i saw him.I have offered to come homeand take her and my Gs to er but she wont go.But i will not take care of him i dont want to see him he is sad,if they will bring him to me to watch as of right now as soon as they leave i would go to ER.So iam asking for prayer for my gs.
deleted_user
Edr, I will pray for healing for your grandson.
Norske1
I am praying for your gs.
lindajoan
edr, I thought your gs was going to the allergist, last week. Did they take him?
caneglect
My heartfelt prayers to your little grandson and to you and DH. I totally relate, my GS has been so hurt emotionally that the pain of even hearing about it has become nearly unbearable. Why should these children suffer, it is so unfair. At this point, prayer is all we have. Hugs and I hope he gets the medical attention he needs. When I read this, it breaks my heart. To forego medical attention for your child and for us as Grandparents to accept this for fear of retribution....Been there, so sad, so perverse. Stay strong we are here for you.
edr1961
I am in tears i think im losing it so afraid something bad will happen to him.My son did text the other day but have not heard anything since,he didnt even let us know they took my gs to ER the other night for the hives.My dil text me that night but my text didnt alert me.My husband said it was a good thing and maybe it was meant to be.
lindajoan
Let's pray your precious gs gets the help he needs.
deleted_user
say you will take him and then take him to the quick care clinic or er if need be.....it sounds like he needs you.....if the parents ask why you took him just say he was getting worse and you were worried for him
edr1961
lindajoan no they couldnt get in till this coming wed. to allergist she asked ifwe can takeher and gs we said sure but found out son is going to work late so we wont begoing,But if i dont lose my nerve i am going to allergist officebefore wed and talk with someone and explain situation to them and make sure they dont say we were there.Someone has to speak up for this child.She was cleaning her house and i think she stirred up all that pet dander.She has 3 large dogs german shepard size inside at all times except for bathroom.and houseis not large gs has to be penned in while dogs run house.You have to see tobelieve
edr1961
DIL has blamed everything from soap,lotion,detergent,grapes,juices,oj,clothing,being in his little swimming pool,blamed our carpet,there carpet,he has to wear 1 pc pj as long as he is in house,now its he went to walmart and got hives.diapers,wipes
lindajoan
edr, In my humble opinion, as long as your gs has an appointment to see the Dr on Wed I would wait before going there yourself. I had a friend who did something similar and it backfired. It was told to her son what she did. You could offer to go with them. I pray this little one gets the proper medical help soon.
whyonlychild
My prayers, thoughts and heart are with you. Of course it hurts you to see GS is such dire condition and are not able to do anything about it. Could Children's Services be called. They keep confidentiality and you do not have to say who you are. Some one needs to help this child and the situation needs professional help. I would wait until the day after the appointment to talk to the Dr. In fact, I think once a Dr knows there is a form of abuse occurring, they are obligated to call the authorities. If this Dr. has any ethics, he will keep the confidentiality needed in this delicate situation. Prayers and hug
edr1961
As of right now we will not be going to the dr with them on wed.I have made myself not available to watch him today and tomarrow. I am truely afraid of my reaction if i see him.DIL said she was calling to see if his regular dr can see him today as far as i know she didnt call.I am praying for wed to come and pray he can sleep.Please keep him in your prayers.Thank you all.I will wait and see what happens wed.I take everyones opinion seriously and appreciate it.And it a situation i never thought iwould be in.
edr1961
Well we have nothad any contact with dil and son.Husband called dil to see how gs is feeling she didnt pick up phone he left message.My emotions are running wild right now I am so tired,weary i dont know how much more i can handle the pain is so unbearable.All we want is gs to be taken care of.
sallyannlass
I agree with Lindajoan. Wait to see what takes place. It may not be the dogs and then again it may be only one thing in a long list of allergens. Wait and pray. Blessings
edr1961
We are, we wont cross the bridge before we get to it.And you are right it may be one of many.Sometimes after i vent to this site and everyone helps me get through my hard issues i have a sense of calmness thank you!
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