I guess it wouldn't be a holiday if something didn't go haywire in our family. Every holiday seems to only bring drama. We were having a pleasant Thanksgiving day with my family until late in the evening when we got a call from our ED. Probably the second time we've heard from her this year. She's engaged. Oh joy. She's been living with a non-Christian man many years her senior for a few months. This is her first relationship that we've ever heard of and now she's engaged after only knowing him less than 6 months. He made an appearance at our ES wedding a few weeks ago. He looked like he had crawled out from under a rock. Terrible first impression for sure. Anyhow, we told her we were disappointed and hope she'll reconsider because he is not a believer. She doesn't care she's "happy" she says. She doesn't have a high aptitude or ability to reason so she is going to find herself in over her head very quickly. She also is terrible at relationships and sabotages them within a year at the longest. This is going to be a nightmare, we can see the writing on the wall. Navigating through other people's bad choices is really an irksome aspect of life to me! All of our 3 ECs have gotten engaged in the last 8 months and will all be married within 5 months of each other. This is not normal!