I've just moved to Ga recently . Alot of things are still packed away . I had the chance during this last ice storm to clean out some boxes and out away . or put in a box to Goodwill , or throw away unwanted / un-needed things . I was putting my ED pics from High school in a box I will be shipping to her soon . I am not sending ALL her pics to her but most , I will be keeping a few in a box put away . Our estrangement has been going on 15 yrs , but until a year ago next week we at least spoke now and again , when she would need something or want something .

She has false memory syndrome , and I have I've forgiven and forgotten syndrome .... she has accused me and her Brothers of unthinkable things , abuse , evictions , thefts .... well I came across in cleaning out an old file cabinet hot check receipts , where her Father and I picked up checks she wrote for such things as pizza , goods at the Dollar stores , etc ... there was even a time I was sued because her dogs had parvo , she went to my Vet , used my account , wrote them a 438.00 hot check for her dogs to get well ... I had no idea she had done that and I got brought to court ... a judgement was upon me but that covered the check ... instead of the Judge telling her to pay that I had to ... I had forgotten all about that till the last 2 days when I went thry the file cabinet . I bought her her first car , it may not be what she drives now with her rich husbands family provides her with now but it was a ride .

It just blows me away that she has walked away , with the world knowing her accusations of abuse and neglect . My Grandchildren will never know the true me or know why I was not allowed in their life . She had a baby last May and I didn't find out till about a month ago , when I accidentally found her FB open again , just long enough for me to see her close it again .

I am working on getting things cleaned out , her things , and will send them to her Mother in Law in Arkansas , she lives in Pa . When I last spoke to her I asked her for her address to send her a Birthday card and a gift , she refused me and told me to send it to her Mother in Law's house in Arkansas . I didn't and that was the last time we spoke . It's her rules or nothing ... and I am not following .