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Packed a lunch,ball,frisbee and went to pick GS for our wkly visit.Knocked,knocked on door noone answered all cars there.Finally stepgd came to door,dogs barking.I asked where GS was she stepped aside they he lay asleep on couch with his mom she got up said " Oh our son was supposed to have text us not to pick him up" My GS skin is flared up and he is sick.And now our son has not contacted yet.Here we go again.Pray for for my gs.
lindajoan
Sorry edr. Maybe they are starting to be embarrassed your gs's skin condition. Was that the reason she gave for him not coming?
edr1961
No gs was on steroid for allergiesfor a wk.his skin was great.the medicine gone and thats been a wk ago,she was supposed to taketoallergist but never called.She said he is itchin so they put him on benadryl this was at 11 am we were there to pick him up.Im about ready to give up i cant take it.Things she has written me in text i can read between the lines.I told my dh animal control,county for the yard,and dyfs needs to be notified.But i wont i am on thin ice now.I am leaving it alone,but she is going to dr on tuesday.
whyonlychild
So sorry that your GS is not getting the treatments and doctor's visits he needs. Of course this deeply affects you. It must just break your heart. Hopefully some one will realize that things are not right for your GS and call in some help for him. If the doctor stays on top of this, he may be the source to call in help. Doctors can be very astute when it comes to signs of child neglect or possible child endangerment of any king. I am praying that the doctor will realize this and do what is best for your GS and also for you. My heart and prayers are with you
lindajoan
That is good news that they are taking your gs to the Dr next week.
edr1961
No m.y GS doesnt go to dr next week,DIL goes to the dr. Heaven knows when GS will go,I really dont want to speak to any of them at this point and i am sure they dont want to speak to us either or hear what we haveto say. This is not the kind,loving son we raised.DIL goes to dr on a regular bases,she has back pain i have told my son one other time we dont want to hear about anyone hurting while GS hurts the way he is.The way dil text me i feel there was a little threat in there i can read between the lines of the conversation with her,i see the attitude differance in her other children.I just dont know what to do at this point i am going to calm down we have our phones turned off.I have not seen where a peditriction doesnt want a follow-up appt.and the dr wanted him to go to a dermatologist and allergist.
lindajoan
I agree with your plan. Calming down, as you said, and praying are good first steps,now. God will direct you as you seek him and give you direction. Remember that only God can change others.
edr1961
you all have idea how much i appreciate everyone opinion cause sometimes i just dontknow if i amdoing the right thing.Only God knows.Its so difficult to know they are not doing right by my little fella.I dont even want to see my GS right now cause i know it will send me into depressed state.Thank you
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