Children Born of Rape Community Group
This group was created as a sounding board for those who feel they suffer from the shame, and/or guilt, of having being conceived as a result of rape. Those of us, who find it hard to live with that pain, or anger, and who need a place to express and vent their feelings, are welcome, and encouraged, to do so here. Someone cares, someone will listen. As the group founder,...
Recently I opened up to my mother about how I feel now about my father and the truth of what happened and how I was conceived. My fathers Identity was kept secret not just to me but to most in our family . After my chat with my mother she called me a few weeks later and told me that I have helped her more then I know but talking so freely and openly about my father gave her the strength to open up her self to friends and family she is thinking about telling my younger brother , and my dad's wife about the truth of me and how I came about . Now Im left asking my self did I really help or hurt my loved ones ? Yes she feel more open to talk about it but by her opening up does it hurt others such as my brother , step mom , and even my father???? Have I just exposed my father to face the lie he has told for 30 years and if so did I ruin his new life?
Funny how it seems that we carry the burden the most. Those who have caused us this pain, that we drag around in chains, just never seems to drop off. We just never seem to be free of it!
I believe if we share together, we can get rid of the cancer that has been growing in us since the moment of conception. We did not do this, it was done to us. God must have known that through it all we would come through it victorious, and with His help we will!
I am always here for you my sister in love!
Lots of love your way,
Christina