Childless Not By Choice Community Group
This group is for people who after years of trying to conceive or for medical reasons never got to have children.
We did have a baby boy on 11/12/08 he was a stillbirth. We have tried twice since then miscarriage and then tried a fertilty to boost my folicals and got breast cncer after starting the drug. I'm 43 and I know I will never have a child unless we adopt, but I don't know if my husbnad wants to do that. I just get angry when I here peoplr killing their children. They are so lucky to have children.
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I feel like an idiot I forgot to post our son's name. We named our son Donnie George.
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I'm new here too. Just reading your post is bringing tears to my eyes. We didn't even make it as far as you did. My husband was 46 when he was diagnosed with prostrate cancer and we only had 6 months to try and get pregnant. He already had a daughter from his first marriage but we decided to have one of our own. We didn't get pregnant in the first three months so we went to a fertility clinic. My husband was told he had the sperm count of a 19 year old and I was told that, although I was very healthy, I had "unexplained infertility". We never did get pregnant. The day of my husband's prostrate removal, I heard on the news that a baby was found on the road somewhere in FL after being thrown out of a car. Just remembering that makes me choke. Adoption really wasn't a choice and AI was too expensive. Come to find out several years later, I was gluten intolerant which caused my "unexplained infertility". I've accepted that children will not be a part of my life but it's difficult. I'm 40 and all my friends have kids - it's especially tough to see that on Facebook. My condolences to you as well as healing strength.
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I have a hard time on facebook too, seeing everyone's happy faces with their babies and kids, its like salt in the wound!
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