Cheaters ONLY! Community Group

This group is for people who have had or are still having affairs and who want a safe place to get help and a place heal. If you are a BS, please be kind and not post in this group. Read all you want but please do not disturb the harmony. If negativity enters this group, it will be deleted. Good luck to all, and lets heal together.

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cindy666 08/21/2018

Me: "So you had no feelings at all for me over the six years or whatever it was? Just wondering and sorry to ask." Him: "Cindy We met and fucked. Then we continued to fuck. You’re married so for me we were / are two people that liked to fuck. Needed to fuck ! Feelings are seldom developed over two people that need fucked. It’s not love nor hate but rather a mutual need of needing-to blow / to fuck . I drop (my daughter) off at 4 today . Are u around? Maybe it’s easier to talk about in person" me: "Well I asked for it. No, I’m not around."

CloverMoon 08/23/2018

I'll probably get a lot of flack for this comment but.......this is how a lot of men handle the end of an A when they've moved on. Mine made comments like.....we aren't growing......&.......we have no future together. Yours was a little more crude but the meaning is the same.....they've moved on to another person. You may think if he admits he had feelings for you it will give you some kind of closure but believe me, it doesn't. You can't fix this & you really don't want to. In a few years (it took me 5), you will wonder what you ever saw in this person. As Madea says......"what the hell was I thinkin to take up with the likes of you".

Tell him to "get fucked", turn your back & never look back. Believe me, he will try to return to you. Be ready.

hardtostay15 08/23/2018

Cindy666 first of all he is lying a bit. He does care for you or "fucking" would be difficult. He just doesn't care enough to want to be with you over his wife. So, honestly, he's not going to change his mind. And I know; sex for a guy is different than for a woman. But deep down he does care alittle.

As for hooking up with him again, be aware that he isn't in it for deep love. He's just in it as a friendly fuck. So, deal with it from that aspect. If that's all you want and nothing more, then have fun. But that's all you'll get. Sorry.

cindy666 08/23/2018

Thanks, Clovermoon and hardtostay15. He isn't married. He is/was seeing a new girl but spent the evening prior to sending me those comments crying on my shoulder about how his new relationship wasn't working out. He said something like 'first time in 15 years I opened myself up to those feelings'. So I asked about our 6 years. You saw the reply...:(

CloverMoon 08/24/2018

If they contact you while seeing someone new it means they are stringing you along until they are sure the new relationship is going to work out.

2 weeks after my xAP broke it off with me, he emailed he was heartbroken over me & missed me. This confused me so I googled the hell out of it & asked for mens opinions. They all said.....get away from this guy. He's moved on to someone else and is stringing you along.

cindy666 08/24/2018

Oh, absolutely. I know this is true. I currently have him blocked everywhere I can think of and haven't heard anything in a week. However, this does not mean I am in the clear. He has a gazillion fake accounts on various platforms and has weaseled his way past blocks in the past. I need to be strong if that happens again.

Snipsnipe 12/07/2018

what selfish cheating fuck he is, the nerve, the nerve of him to that to you

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