There is no such thing as he won't let you go---YOU won't let go. You need to own that. You CAN go no contact if you really want that. But I have a feeling that you don't really want to break up or you would have.

If you continue, you are just in for more of a roller coaster ride and much more heartache. I know letting go is very very hard, but you are going nowhere---he is holding all the cards and has all the advantages (i.e. having his cake and eating it too).

I would cease communication with him if it means blocking him, etc. No exceptions. That is the only way you can heal and get on with your life. Right now you are living on leftovers.

Let me get this straight.. He has divorced and remarried while still seeing you?

Oh Rose.....
Love is different things to different people. And he may love you, but he is choosing other women to be by his side. He has made that clear.
I hope you are out there looking for a real, genuine, truthful and trustworthy man who wants to take Rose on lovely vacations, and wants to post pics of him and Rose together, and treats Rose like the REAL queen she is.....and not wasting your life waiting for something that really isn't happening. Life is entirely too short, friend.

I totally don't want to be broken up. Sometimes I get to where I just can't take it but still hanging in there. Like a fool. I know that roller coaster, it has been a hell of a ride.
Yep remarried, circumstances prevailed, he didn't' want to destroy my marriage, so he met someone and... she got pregnant. But he hardly left my side.
and Shoretime, and I have that guy, i'm just not in love with him. sigh
But.. just heard news, giving him an ultimatium this week, but really I just dont' think I can take it anymore.