I am very proud of you. Each day does get a little bit easier!

Well you start to realize how dumb you were and that you really do have a nice life and flirted with wrecking it all!!! Actually starting to think about what the hell was I thinking!!!

I mean if it were ever to work if have to move would gain a preteen and give up at least half of my life savings!!! It would put me back years!!!

Right now my wife and I can come and go as we please cause kids are in there 20s..... And not having to split the money means earlier retirement and nicer vacations......

And you know what....... My wife is better in bed and much prettier and smarter no baggage!!!!

"Well you start to realize how dumb you were and that you really do have a nice life and flirted with wrecking it all!!! Actually starting to think about what the hell was I thinking!!!"

That's what keeps me on track, Restore.....

Love you all

Stop it restore! I so love that you are reconnecting with you wife & your life but not at the expense of the OW! Example: My wife is better in bed and much prettier and smarter...no baggage. So why did you stray to begin with????? You don't have to answer that, we all know why. My point is.....halla-fuckin-luyah.....you found happiness with your marriage again & I couldn't be happier for you but please don't trash the OW. She served her purpose....didn't she?

Yes I rediscovered love w her you are right

Isn't that the truth restore? I couldn't agree more. I realize now more than ever I didn't love OM. I don't love my H like that but the love I have for H means much more than the love felt during an A. I'm sure you know what I mean.

It's unconditional love with wife!!!!