I doubt you want to hear from a BS. This is ultimately your decision. Nobody can make it for you. I will sing your praises if you have NC. Your H deserves that, and so do you. Are you going to leave ur H for this OM? If so then do it.
But it won't be any better with him. Eventually one or both of you will be right back here. I hope u find the strength you need.

jaymee.....really? I know we aren't the best of friends but can't you spot a Troll when you see one????