lord guys, so my husband and I are getting divorced but I've been still staying at his house and he's been helping me. He says there's hope for the future a couple of months ago. I've been trying to figure out if he's going to see other people since I've done it off and on during our relationship. he's been giving mixed signals. okay so there's this coworker at my job. He's not my usual type but we get along great. He's been so nice and he's so hard working he makes me think all men aren't the same. I wouldn't date him as soon as my divorce; Part of me doesn't think I could date anyone or be with anyone after everything with my husband. Part of me is lonely and knows I can't wait on him to want me again. He might never. So turns out this coworker is thinking of getting married to this girl. And he never told me. I know he has no obligation to tell me anything but as friends and me being upfront and honest with him...I thought he was different. This really hurt my feelings. When I asked him why he never told me he said he was thinking I might replace her. I was shocked. I'm seeing this as my sign that I need to be alone for a long time. In my mind, it's over. But the other night my husband finds the messages where I was talking about him. And because of my wording, he thinks this coworker and I have this relationship and he's wondering why I'm still staying with him. And the best part is, because of my past behavior he won't believe anything I say.