Ok...calm down and one step at a time. First, find out if that is the case. If it's not, then you're worrying for nothing. If it is, it's very hard, difficult, embarrassing, it's a LOT of things but NOT the end of the world. Many are treatable, and certainly live with.
Feeling anxious and scared right now is normal, but be rational and sensible as well. No rash decisions or suicidal thoughts... Just one day at a time...
And if he waited until you tried to break up with him to tell you, he's probably bluffing....
Hope it turns out well for you

Hmmmm...again, I am rather new here and not skilled at sniffing out impostors. But a few things about broken are not adding up with me. Only 2 weeks into A and this emotional about ending it? Why a new thread about everyday with no response to group members comments? Maybe I am all wet about this but are we being played here?

I sincerely hope we are not being played. Broken- if your story is true, and I'm sorry if it is, you need to a try to calm down. Do you have any prior STD's that you are aware of? I find it strange he is now saying you gave him a STD. If you have been with this person sexually as it sounds like...You need to get tested for any STD's he may have given you, as well. I hope that all turns out okay on that front. If you do have any STD's that your husband in unaware of or does not have...you have to let him know. No if, ands, or buts. Next, YES, use this as a wake up call to get your life and marriage together. You have children that need to be considered in this. They need a mentally healthy mom, and strong family unit if at all possible. Affairs are not worth it. The excitement and high of an A is short lived. The chaos it causes is not worth it. If you have a loving spouse- you have a lot. If you have healthy happy children you have a lot. Start counting your blessings, and resolve to make healthy changes to your life. Even if your marriage is to end, you have your children to live for and get your life together for. Good luck and God bless.

If its only 2 weeks how could he know he's got one? And if itv was passed and detected so quickly I would think either you have symptoms or this is a hoax.

If your real, please go get help. This is deffinately not worth ending your life over.

I am for real duh or I would not be here!

Broke, Ok, after reading your post I would like to apologize for indicating you may have been a troll.

You are confused for sure, but that is what this site is for so we are here for you. I think bluesky and some others has given excellent advise as how to use this site.

Did you find out?

Yes, he said he went to the doctor and tests negative