Cheaters Anonymous Community Group
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Hey all,
im not proud to say I'm 30 years old and have had 4 very intense serious relationships, where I cheated on all of them.
Currently I am in one of those serious realtionships- with my sons father of 11 years total.
Ive been on a "good streak" , havent spoken to any other men out of bordem in a LONG time, up until 2 days ago.
Been sending very racy snapchat and text messages to a couple of guys I know, who Ive had crushes on for some time now.
I feel guilty, but then I dont...
I like the attention. I crave the wrong kind from the wrong ones.
I dont want to be intimate with my sons father or get the same kind of attention I crave from others, from him.
Because, sadly, I am not in love with my sons father. We are more like room mates and brother and sister. So you see my dilemma.
Advice and some imput would be grand.
thanks in advance... xx Kris
Its good you have taken steps to recognize your problem.
No one can save you or rescue you, you have to do the work to be a better person and be the best person you can be, that you were meant to be.
You are destroying your soul and spirit.
You have to take a long look inside of you, and listen to why you are hurting yourself and your relationships.
I am not saying you have to stay in the relationship. It might be better to leave so that you can get yourself help.
There are reasons for your acting out, they may or may not be your own fault.
Only you can do the work to love yourself enough to get help and get better.
Please seek out professional help, be honest to yourself, to others and then to God.
Get someone you can be accountable to.
stay healthy and safe.