Cheaters Anonymous Community Group

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NC check-in Monday, June 3

notmyself1
notmyself1
I am here. Voluntarily. I know he will try and contact me but I have no desire to contact him.
deleted_user
deleted_user
So you're having a good day :) Me too.
notmyself1
notmyself1
So tired of doing this in increments. I'm looking for an IC as we speak. I'm in a bad place with my M and i just want to work on getting answers. If H wont agree to IC, then I'll go myself. I'm miserable. ugh
deleted_user
deleted_user
Sounds like you're ready for a giant leap forward. Off the rock and into the river. You will end up somewhere better. Hugs :)
notmyself1
notmyself1
Thanks FIber :)
I hope so. This cycle is wearing me out. I'm not happy in my M, H is not agreeing to IC but promising to change and still repeats his same behaviors. When OM reaches out to me, I feel badly and want to help. He's miserable - we're in a big mess. I'm s confused.
Thing is - I don't know how to swim, so this is gonna be a long hard road.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Fiber, you are so strong. What you said was accurate and also funny. I'm still NC and NP, but I sure wish I had never met him, yet I still love him, but am now starting to care about his wife than I do him. LOL! AT ME!