Hey broken, having an A is incredibly painful to a BS - I know it only lasted a couple of weeks, but you and your H are on two different time tables now. While you are ready to move on and put it behind you, it is all new for him--it just happened. You will need to give it time and let him heal. Try to tolerate his response. Validate his pain, it is real and sex alone won't fix the problem. I'm wishing you tons and tons of support as you begin the healing. Whatever you do, DO NOT go back to your OM. Its hard enough to leave after two weeks, it will only get harder. Be kind to yourself. You will soon discover that there is nothing too personal that you can share here. This community is incredibly loving and supporting. We are all willing to share and help each other out. Lots of luck/love friend.

Brokenangel,

That sucks. I can't offer too much help but I can kind of relate...

Because I was wearing a dress when I cheated on my husband, he refuses to touch me with one on. He's banned me from wearing dresses around him and when I'm not with him I must have (tights, shorts, leggings...) underneath it. I'm hoping one day in the future (preferably summer) he'll be "healed" enough to let me wear dresses around him.

I think they have triggers so maybe if you can figure his out it'll help. Good luck!

Thank you guys!