In the middle of our latest squabble here, someone was kind enough to include some links for me that would be more fitting for the new situation between my wife and me. They were geared more toward rebuilding. I recognized how valuable they were at the time, but I was so caught up in the struggle of the moment (what, me? Noooo...) that I didn't take the time to bookmark them. I regret that.

My wife has come to understand that the issue isn't really the affair, but that it was a symptom of an underlying problem in our marriage. We're starting completely from scratch and have had two dates so far. I'd like for us to do it right this time. She's a fantastic lady, and I'd be interested in a long-term committed relationship with her.

So could whoever it was who was so kind before (I'm sorry I let your efforts get lost in the sauce) pop them in here again?

I'm taking a new direction and will probably not be posting much any more, except to let you know how things are going. Hopefully, I'll be able to share good and encouraging news with you from time to time.

Thank you all for all your help, and I'm sorry that I scorched some earth along the way.

You guys are the best.