As some of you may know, Cole is writing a book of what we have been through. The first half is our story and the second half is helps and articles. He has written many helpful articles which are all in the news section of the group Healing Infidelity Through Faith. http://www.dailystrength.org/groups/healing-infidelity-through-faith The articles are specifically written to be helpful to all regardless of their faith or lack thereof. He has written and added a new article and he posted a link to it on Infidelity. We have been getting some good feedback so I want to post it here for your feedback as well.

I just decided to copy and paste what Cole said about it on the infidelity site:

"In writing our book, I realized one of the issues commonly dealt with by BSs and CSs is the issue of love. For CSs, it can be whether what they are feeling is love for the AP, or whether they still love their spouse, and if so, in what way since they are committing an unloving action against them. For BSs, it can be whether they still love their spouse after what they'd done to them, or why they have feelings of hate one minute and can't-let-go love the next.

So I wrote a chapter on the topic for our book, and thought it would be good to post it so people can benefit from it, but also offer any feedback on areas to improve on or confirm I'm on the right track. Note: this does come at it with a Christian orientation, but I'm hoping the info provided will be applicable to most everyone. So any feedback appreciated."

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