Cheaters Anonymous Community Group
This is a support group for cheating spouses looking for understanding and strength. Betrayed spouses are welcome to post ONLY if they can do so in a supportive manner (no bashing...these posts will be deleted), and please do not comment on 'Cheaters Only' posts.
I'm so sorry to be posting so late guys, and for those who are reading this thank you for taking time out of your schedule to read.
Tonight hasn't been the best. The guy I cheated of, now, ex bf is texting me saying he misses me. I haven't seen him in one month and I'm scared. I'm scared because of how he threatened to exploit private conversations and pictures I trusted him with over the Internet. That lesson was learned. But him texting me he misses me and wants a friendship is strange. Especially since the time he was talking to me he was talking to another girl too. Back to the focus though, I'm trying to stay on point with this guy and tell him that we can't be friends but he is being persistent. How do I handle this??? Because I can't be taking all these steps I've taken and just run back, not after all the progress I made.
I still want my ex bf back but he's even been sending me mixed signals. I can't handle this guys, please I need support, advice, something, anything!
Tonight hasn't been the best. The guy I cheated of, now, ex bf is texting me saying he misses me. I haven't seen him in one month and I'm scared. I'm scared because of how he threatened to exploit private conversations and pictures I trusted him with over the Internet. That lesson was learned. But him texting me he misses me and wants a friendship is strange. Especially since the time he was talking to me he was talking to another girl too. Back to the focus though, I'm trying to stay on point with this guy and tell him that we can't be friends but he is being persistent. How do I handle this??? Because I can't be taking all these steps I've taken and just run back, not after all the progress I made.
I still want my ex bf back but he's even been sending me mixed signals. I can't handle this guys, please I need support, advice, something, anything!
Delete him from you life (block his email and phone number) and find new things and people to occupy your time. Yes, the thought of him will be in your head like a nasty ghost, but you must resist the urge. Find someone that you can rely on to talk to every time the temptation hits you. If you slip, do not be afraid to confess that here and we will support you, but at least try to fight the urge and replace it with something else. Keep telling yourself that he is toxic. Repeat it to yourself like a mantra "he is toxic, he is toxic, he is toxic" Take things one day at time. If you can go one day not contacting him then that is success and that means that you can go one more day and then one more and then one day. Just go one day at a time.
Good luck