Cheaters and Betrayeds Helping Each Other Community Group
This is a group where cheaters and betrayeds can come to try to help each other better understand infidelity from the perspective of the other side because understanding can often lead to healing. Members can ask each other questions, share experiences, and provide insights and opinions without judgments or animosity. If you have a chip on your shoulder, an axe to grind,...
New guy new love. New hope. A year and a half in I dont know if I'm just projecting or if he's just one more of the same and I'm not sure what to do.
I've had friends forward suggestive messages he's sent, and he lies about his time. He recently changed all his passwords and left a local dedicated run to go over the road. I know he cheated on his first wife with his second wife and others but he swears he never cheated on his second wife but she did and left him for the affair after 12 years.
He doesnt have any relationship with any of his kids from either marriage and he isn't close with his parents. Idk if it matters but his parents vacation separately and socialize separately.
Anyway amI in a pattern or just projecting? Confused and not sure what to do.
First, why are you with him in the first place? Second, leave, run, save yourself. People can change. I bleavie that. But he isn't being cristal clear and honest. I know it is hard. But you are worth so much more. There shouldn't be a time that you have a question and if there is he should have a good answer. He should be transparent to you.
Run far far away.