New here : I am 63 and am caring for my husband with multiple chronic illness. I retired in March to care for my husband, because he was unsafe to be at home, he was hospitalized in March. He is severely depressed, he needs assistance with all of his care, dressing, bathing, he is incontinent  etc. I used to be able to transfer him easily, now it's all I can do to get him out of his chair, I am doing everything the doctor says, but it doesn't help.  I find my self loosing my temper, I cant tell if he cant with some of his care of wont, I just feel like crying. I dont know how much longer, I can do this, but I dont want to put him in assisted care. Just venting, just needed a shoulder to cry on.