but my name is a boys name, and i have two older brothers and she would always bully me for it...so i beat her up on a regular basis so she could understand what its like to be chased around by two mean older brothers, takled, tickled toill i pissed my pants, given dead legs, tied to chairs...it was like my brother was in this wrestling class and he tried his tactics on me to see if they would really work, but im just his little sister...anyways i was pissed that she would even call me a boy or compare me to those assholes so i would chase her around threatening to rip her hair out!!! anyways...we have inneviatibly mended our ways of thinking and i still talk to her, but all these girls want to accuse me of wanting to be boy growing up, thats just how i felt i was protrayed because of a name i was given at birth, and it later had no influence on who i became attracted to, but my bullying her helped to undermine my ability to feel comfortable with having a name that both of my parents are proud of (my mothers name being robin, my grandmothers being jeri, and i myself a tyler) and i have to say that if i ever have a girl myself her name will probably be a girls name, because i had felt so offended? no it will probably be a boys name, because its not my fault that my brothers were going through a bunch of hormonechangesand wanted to pick on thier little itty bitty sister! and its not my fault that that girl had a smart mouth and a little bitchy attitude!