This will be long and I'm sorry....So I am divorced and so is my boyfriend.  My boyfriend is my ex husband for over 22 years ago. We both remarried and started talking AFTER we were both seperated from our spouses.  We are both divorced now and we both have kids with our ex spouses.  My ex and our kids are good; however him and his ex and the kids are not so much.  I feel like she has never had any consequences for her actions.  This was the latest that's happened.  On June 12th, my 15 year old was driving her SUV.  In the vehicle was her, my boyfriend, my son, his son and myself.  We had went to eat and was leaving the restaurant; we saw his ex coming through the red light.  My daughter headed towards our house which is about 20 minutes from where we lived.  His ex lives in the opposite direction.  My daughter looked into her rearview mirror and was like mom she is behind us and on my bumper so close I can see her face in my mirror.  I told her not to worry to continue to the house.  Shortly after that his ex passed us and cutting my daughter off close enough I'm not sure how she missed the front of my daughters vehicle.  We kept going and she went on.   A few minutes later she contacted her son and told him to tell me that I had problems ahead.  He told her not to do anything stupid I was not driving.  Well we came around the curve and saw her pulling to a side road.  I told my daughter to continue on but be cautious of what she is doing.  We got closer and she made a u-turn in front of us and then darted the front of her vehicle into my daughters lane causing my daughter to have to brake hard.  (My daughter was just in an accident in August with the same basic scenario; where a vehicle made a u-turn and we t-boned it).  Then contacted her son back and stated that we better be happy he was in our vehicle or she would of hit us head-on.  She had their 12 year old daughter in the vehicle with her when this all happened.  I reported her to the sheriff's office and we have court coming up in August.  My question is has anyone else had to deal with a psycho ex and does it ever get any better?   I love my boyfriend he is a great person, but is this what I have to look forward to if we get married.  I have kids and I don't want them hurt in this and the fact she is psycho.

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