My husband has continuously made excuses for his ex. It seems like no matter what she does, he blows it off. His ex called my work threatening to sue them if they did not fire me. Sadly, it was my 1st "REAL" job since graduating college after being a stay at home mom. Apparently I am unable to give my 18 yo stepson a flu shot w/o her permission (she won't give us insurance card even tho we pay half). We have been together 9 years married 5. My stepson last month told me "I was just thinking and since I met you you have never said a bad thing about my mom and that's really cool". She is married now but still wants to ruin my marriage (it's starting to work). She isn't a very involved mom. She tells my step daughter to lie to me because "she doesn't trust me". This is due to my husband venting to her (questionable inappropriate behavior on his part) told her I'm on a antidepressant. He will not get child support adjusted even though when it was decided we only had his 2 kids part time and now we have them more than her and share joint custody. We are still paying for his son who is now almost 20 in college. Why is he so afraid? He says he doesn't say anything to her cuz she will just hang up on him so it's easier to ignore it. We had never had face to face except a few months ago when she was saying the most cruel things. AGAIN- not a word from him.
I have 2 sons (14 & 17) from previous, he has daughter 16, son 19 and together we have an 8 yo son. I love him but my anger is crazy. We see a therapist but it's not really helping??