I have been married for 6 weeks, but we were together for nearly 2 1/2 years prior to marriage. He has a daughter (9) and a step son (13) (his ex-wife's son who calls my husband dad) who lives with us four days a week and with his ex three days a week (but his ex wife changes the schedule on us all the time). My husband's ex wife (baby momma) just bought and moved into a house five houses down from us which is causing me a lot of stress, because she is demanding and still tries to control and manipulate my husband and it works 75% of the time. She is coaching my step daughter (the love of my husband's life) to hate me which is working. Since being married, my husband has become rude, demanding, and saying hurtful things to me in front of the kids, which I feel is making them dislike me and is pushing me and my husband away from each other, because he always resides on his ex wife and his daughter's side. He gets made if I try to enforce any rules in the house "because we have to be the fun house" which has caused my step daughter to become a brat and learn she can get away with anything, because she doesn't have to listen to me, because daddy will give her love and rewards if she is mad at me for being a parent. I feel like an outsider in my own home, half the time. Two or three weeks before the wedding, I cried almost everyday, but I thought it was from the stress of planning the wedding. Since we have been married, he has been cold to me, hates when I do stuff without the family (girls nights with friends once a month and running races and any physical activities that I have been doing routinely for about 10 years now) and trying to make me be a house wife who works full time. He is threatening to divorce me if we don't start having a family right away which I told him it isn't a good time now, because the stress me of trying to find a new job, his ex wife down the street who continues to manipulate, and the two kids are too much to handle right now. We fight constantly now and I am still crying all the time. I see a therapist but it doesn't always help. What should I do?!?!