my boyfriend is bisexual and has asked to bring another man into our relationship. I am confused on what I want to do. I just need to vent and figure things out. He told me at the beginning of our relationship that he is bisexual, we have been intimate for about a month and now he has brought up bringing in another man and I'm not sure how to feel. Do I find some interest in another man being involved with us? I don't know, I mean we talk about it in fantasy, but to have it become a real thing, that's where I get apprehensive. I don't have alot of experience with men, this is my third relationship I'm 40+ years old. My last relationship was 10 yrs ago. Soooo I'm more vanilla when it comes to the sexual experiences. Have I had thoughts of 2 men and myself, yes, have I had thoughts of the men becoming intimate that way, no, not really until he brought it up. I am finding some interest and I think that's what confusing me and how I feel. One minute I'm like hmmmm maybe, the next I'm like I don't think so. I think alot of it has to do with my insecurities about myself, am I not enough to please him, am I lacking or doing something less than I should. I know its not really about me with him being attracted to both sexes. I don't feel this is anything I can talk to my friends about to just use them as a sounding board, and I don't know where to go to figure this out for me before having another discussion with him about this.I know I'm rambling on, but again, I don't know where else to turn to vent this. Any thoughts or suggestions or people I can talk to would be appreciated