I can understand. I too am married and bi. He loves me just as much as he did before he found out and that is such a great feeling.

i am married but my husband does not know and i cannot tell him. he does not accept lesbian and gay relationships. I always knew i was bi but i tried to put it out of my mind. now that i am 31, the feelings are very strong and i cannot ignore them anymore but i don't want to cheat. I never been with a woman before but I am attracted to men and woman the same way. I was married for 13 years. I got married very young and i wasn't able to explore my sexuality. maybe that's the problem. I wish everyone could be more understanding.

I'm engaged and while my fiancé and one of my sisters understand my parents are completely against it and he doesn't want his family knowing. He says they are very against gays and bi's and he just doesn't want them knowing which kinda hurts me but I guess I should be ok with it since he is so understanding.

I am bi and married. I'm not totally "out," I guess. I mean, it's not everyone's business and I am not involved with a woman anyway. I told my husband, my brother and some friends. I feel like I am getting along better with other women now that I've accepted myself. it's hard to get used to letting myself have crushes on women just like I do on men. I had a crush on a male barista at the place where I get coffee, now I think I have a crush on a female barista. She has the best smile I've ever seen. Not that my crushes ever go anywhere, that's part of the fun. the glorious, romantic, lost cause I guess. yes, I know, I am a banana.

I am bi and married to a man. I don't really tell people because what's the point. It doesn't really come up in conversation either, to blurt it out would be awkward. Dsf95, I so had a crush on a female barista too. My husband started noticing the increase in my coffee expenditures, didn't have the heart to tell him why. He probably would have done something to embarrass me if we went through the drive thru together if I had. He knows and he loves me for what I am. I just don't think he would have been too thrilled to know our coffee tab went up because of a girl ;-)

I am bi and married. I just turned 50 and couldn't keep it in any longer, so I told my husband. He is OK with letting me explore this side of myself. He says that he has always suspected how I felt, but I just wouldn't open up to him and admit it. I don't know, maybe he's right. I grew up being told that it was wrong, so when I had these feelings I always hid them from everyone, even as an adult. They would slip out every now and then, but I always covered it. But no more hiding from it.....I have accepted that this is who I am and how I want to be.

I have the opposite problem hun!!!

I have the same problem as kendra9n I never got to explore that part of me and nowit drives me crazy I have many bi friends makes it hard

I am bi and I used to be married to a woman who insisted I say I was a lesbian now. Classic bisexual erasure, which often happen when we're married, whether to a man or a woman. I was always still bisexual.

After my wife committed suicide, after an appropriate interval I dated men and women as before.

I believe bisexuals are capable of monogamy but it's a lot easier if you had a chance to have those slutty experimental years and get it all out of your system first. Makes it a lot easier to settle down later

I'm also married .Happily so.But I do wish I could have figured out I was bisexual before getting married ...so I could have have got it out of my system ! Now i'm left with urges and feelings that I can do nothing with.

I'm black, bisexual, married and my husband is also homophobic so he doesn't know about any of my feelings nor does he know about the romantic/sexual relationships I had when I was younger. I got a lot of labels. All that being said, he is the cheater in our relationship (online cheating but still cheating). I may have desires to be sexual with women but i can only do one relationship at a time. This is how I'm wired. Maybe I'll screw someone else before we get divorced but I don't know that yet, is there a breaking point that I haven't reached yet?