I've really had fun reading the posts in this forum. I definately get the feeling that we are all going through similar things which is so helpful. It sounds like there are a lot of us that are in a relationship with a guy whether it be a bf or fiancee or husband. This question is for those that are in a relationship.

Since you've been in the relationship with your man, have you had an experience or experiences with a girl? If so, what were they like? Was it just you and her with no guys around? A threesome with you, your guy and her? Or a foursome where it was you and him, and her with her man? Did you like the arrangments? How about your man?

For me, my only girl experiences have happened since I've been married. My husband has been there for all but one of the experiences and honestly I don't think I would have been brave enough to try without him being there and his support. My experiences have been with the same girl and I feel like the 3 of us have become pretty good friends through our experiences. Anyway, it started with my hus just watching and he has gotten more involved with both of us since, but he and she have never had intercourse. That's just been where we've drawn the line for us I guess and it's worked out pretty well so far. We've told her that if she has a bf she can invite him too, just to make sure she knows that we want her to feel comfortable.

She and I have been alone once before, but that was only after a few times and she and I were a lot more comfortable.

What do all of you think or do? This has seemed to work for us.

I realize that not all girls are going to be comfortable having your guy there and I don't blame them. Fortunatly this girl I've met is ok with it.