i feel I need to vent or hear what others have to say if they are going through any of this.  

My husband and I are retired. I am 57 he is 63. He has no children of his own and I have 3 grown children. And we have 3 grandchildren. 2 girls who are 2 and 1 girl who is 3 months. 

I have waited for so long to be a grandparent and wanted to be this fun loving grandparent. One that I never had.

here is my problem. My daughter who has 1 of the 2 year olds and the 3 month old has asked if we could watch them Monday thru Friday. She just started a job and her husband also and they are both going full time to school. My Daughters husband isn't the best son I law, but I tolerate him for my Daughters sake  

my daughter is trying harder to find day care somewhere other than us because for one, and a big one because she feel that her step dad, my husband doesn't really want them here   ( ran out of room  will explain more later)