Before and after divorce...Recovery steps Community Group
Support for people going thru the process of divorce and the recovery steps taken to achieve wholeness again.
New here, New to these kind of groups all together But really needing some support at this time in my life. So its been almost a month since I came home from a normal day at work to find a empty house left for my son and I. While the entire family inncocently went about a normal day my husband of 5yrs left. No warning, no signs, and he took everything the food from the fridge, the TV off my 5yr olds wall, game systems, even everything in the shed outside.
To make it all sugar coated he made sure to do it exactly 1 week before our anniversary, he was "Supprising me" with a gift and asked for my wedding rings (shhh i know how gullible that sounds now) But Suprise, no gift and a big "Thats your problem"
I gave up everything for this relationship, I dont drive due to medical reasons and Before we bought the house we live in now I was walking distance from stores, my sons school, and my work. I now relocated to nowhere but lake and feilds and have no way to get to work, or my son to school. Ive gave up everything, only to loose the little I had.
Why is the only question I could ask, as his tears streamed down he said "I hate your son" excuse me? A 5yr old ADHD child is alot but to abandon everything for it?? Due to finacial issues I can not afford a lawyer, i have a call into free leagal advice and I am awaiting that call. I want to be let off the hook for responsiblity of selling the home, neither of us can keep it alone. I want to split all martial CC debts, and I want my rings.
This is a very painful process and I feel for all the people that are going through it too. Where do you go when you are so hurt and alone?
And he continues to text, explaining his love but how a toddler defeted him. really?
