Before and after divorce...Recovery steps Community Group
Support for people going thru the process of divorce and the recovery steps taken to achieve wholeness again.
I had to go thru the court system to get my daughter back, i got full custody and she has visitation rights. she came down to see her and gave me this big long story of how everything is bad, how she had to ride the bus from pa to tx just to see her daughter. (2 day trip by car) I gave her a little money and fixed a bag of things to make the trip more comfortable. she called me the next morning telling me she was home etc. wow, all i wanted was one truth and all i got was lies again. duped once again.
IF THEIR LIPS ARE MOVING, THEY ARE LYING
That being said, KNOW that it is better to simply NOT ask any questions and to keep your feelings to yourself. Your generosity of spirit (as evidenced in what you wrote here) is commendable, but don't expect it to change anything.
At this point, what difference would the truth make? Sometimes, you just have to accept what is and not nit-pick it. There are some "truths" about the breakup of my marriage that I will never know -- and at this point, I don't need to know and really don't CARE to know. What I do know is that I am so much better off OUT OF THAT TOXIC RELATIONSHIP than I ever was while in it.
I will hold you in my thoughts and prayers and wish for a peaceful new existence for you and your daughter.