I am 30 years old. I am submissive. I have been married for three years to my husband who is very vanilla. He is aware of my kinky needs and knows that I have a Dom. He knows the Dom who is 60 years old. . I have been with my Dom for four years and have developed romantic feelings or him. I love him in a different way than I love my husband. But I don’t love my husband any less. My Dom doesn’t have romantic feelings for me. He says he doesn’t have those feelings for me particularly because I’m married, partly because of our age difference, and partly because he doesn’t want romance. The way he touches me and treats me makes me feel like he has romantic feelings for me but he swears he doesn’t. I am struggling with the fact that he doesn’t feel the same for me as I do for him. I don’t know what to do. I love him dearly but wish he felt the same for me. Can anyone offer support without judging me?