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Daddy wants me to be his mom.

Chooseausername
Chooseausername

I don't know how to approach this. First off we're both guys and second, for the foreseeable future I'm the sub. How do I Dom my Dom dad and be a mom? On top of this I'm eager but relatively new to this lifestyle, not because of the sex but because of the intensity.


The only problem that I have is the nature of the problem. I mean you can't have it both ways, can you?

KinkGarbageVanillaTreasure
KinkGarbageVanillaTreasure
Some people are "switches". their whip swings both ways....like bi-sexuals. Maybe a poor example, but are you gay or bi-sexual? Can you make yourself be straight? So it's fine to explore, but at the end of the day, you must do what you are comfortable with. Does the activity or arrangement charge your batteries up? Do you feel good about what you did even a month later? Do you feel like a fish out of water? Does it leave you feeling drained or feeling ashamed?

Questions to ask yourself. And then why did you want to bottom in the first place? The "intensity" is it intimacy that you are really seeking? So exploration with a responsible partner in a safe way with your limits and safeword respected each way is fine! But you must both be honest, communicate, and accept the others desires and limits.

Long winded, but hope it helps.