I am having a bad time trying to deal with the breakup....actually being dumped....it hurts bad...trying to deal with it but somehow can't get my mind off it...haven't slept properly since yesterday...haven't eaten properly too...so many emotions running thru the mind...whoz to be blamed?? How could i be so stupid??I don't deserve this...my heart feels heavy and it realllly hurts..sometimes I hate him n sometimes I cant...praying that God hurts him mentally emotionally n physically...Want him to pay for the hurt he caused.
I to had a 5 year ...perfect relationship …...then one day cold turkey.... she said I want space....no reasons..... I to couldn't sleep for months.... hurt real bad. we went for weeks not talking but I initiated contact so we met...still no progress or better understanding.... so the hurt continued.... I don't know what to do either.
I'm reading these posts and feel the same way. But I'm feeling it now on 5/9/2020. I wonder if justne (from 2017) or captim (from 2019) are still reading, if they can share an update or how you coped? How did you get over the pain? Talking to different people only make me feel like a loser! It has been 2.5 months since my 5-year relationship stopped cold turkey (with no contact and unanswered emails that I sent about 3 weeks ago). I appreciate any help. I can't bear the pain.