Can you get out of it without bad feelings?

Ah, been there. I learned my lesson with that one and have since then refused to be on anyone's plan but my own ever. It sucks, had to wait forever to remove myself from moms plan tho.

Yeah its locked in now as they didnt start bitching about it until AFTER they changed their plan......UGH

You are in a tough spot...I really don't know how far the extent of your feelings of being treated poorly by your family go, but for me my family was unhealthy and unsafe...It took me a long time to become 100% financially independent from them (got sick, lost my job, got on SSDI, food stamps, subsidized housing...medical bills etc...) And even once I was free..no more strings attached, I still had times where I didn't have enough food, couldn't afford a Dr's appointment, clean laundry etc...but I wouldn't trade any of those things to be indebted to my family again.

I've been estranged for some time now, and I couldn't be more relieved. It is my mother's side of the family that thinks I am faking and Immune Disorder, PTSD, Sarcoidosis. My Father's side of the family and I always got along, but they've all passed now, so it really is just me.

It's something to think about if you go down the road of estrangement...are you ready to be 100% on your own...sure you may have friends, but when it comes down to the toughest times, it's usually you you have to depend on...

I may have gone way O/T there, but I feel for you Sean, and wish you the best...I hope you get a break and things get easier.

I was on my own with my wife for 8 years and i think thats why im having such a hard time right now is because im not use to having to ask for help or rely on anyone but myself for the most part........I was estranged from everyone for around 5 years and i didnt think twice about being so but one day when my mom called me and my wife and said they were pretty much homeless and had nowhere to go me and my wife ( mostly my wife ) didnt even think twice about telling them to come and live with us for awhile and btw i never even asked or mentioned getting money from them while they stayed with us and then my wife got a house with the inheritence she recieved from her fathers passing and even as we moved out of the apartment we were in i even went as far as to pay 2 months of rent for them so they didnt have to worry for that amount of time atleast yet everyday me not having alot of money to give my mom/stepdad is more of a problem then the day before, I have to do something before i flip out and go living on the streets.....

Forgot something, To add further to feeling unwelcome here and judged because of the money issue they have went as far as to make sure that they tie food up in grocery bags that they dont want me and my brother touching so now im to the point to where i only eat if i have to like literally as im about to pass out from lack of nurishment

OK, you may be a grown adult, but the food thing is abusive just the same. After you took your parents in and then paid 2 months rent from them? Unbelievable.
I'm not sure from your posts...do you and your brother get along?
I think you are right, you do have to get out of there, and get out as soon as possible. Can you get medical documentation regarding your injuries and mental health/inpatient stay and are you still getting any treatment?
I might suggest to start applying for low income housing/subsidized housing ASAP...if you do this, every housing authority will tell you there waiting list is a year of 3 years, but still apply...they tell everyone that, they told me that and I was in in less than 3 months.
With subsidized housing if you are not receiving SSDI, your rent is $50 a month and you are required to do 20 (I think) hours of community service per year. If you decide to apply for subsidized housing tell them your parents have given you until the end of the month to live there, so you will move higher up the list.
Just something to think about...

I think im gonna have to do the housing thing because although i thank god everyday for my stepdad getting me down here and away from all the shit i have going on in MI it honestly feels like im not welcome here at all......I get paid tomorrow and i have to basically take the entire check to pay the state of MI so i dont lose my license and i just know that if i dont hand them any money tomorrow its gonna be hell until i can but if they start talking shit about me not giving them any money then i know that without a doubt im gonna blow my top and end up without a place to stay, Yes me and my brother do get along except the occasional argument but we have always been that way and always get over it. Im not in therapy because i have no money to go or even any leads on where and when to go and cant find anything close to me that works with your financial situation..... Every night i lay awake for atleast an hour trying to go to sleep but cant because im so scared of being homeless and i know that eventually that very thing will happen.

I asked about your brother b/c I was wondering if he would consider being your room mate?
If not, the first step would go to your local dept of human services and tell them you have no job and are going to be kicked out of where you live by (___________) pick a date and apply for food stamps. Since you have no income, you;ll get approved and you will get emergency food stamps right there on the spot. (you may have to wait a long time, and the workers will probably be rude, so if you have some Valium, bring it)
Ask the DHS worker for a list of Housing Authorities or where your local Housing Authority is and if they know where the community mental health clinic is..because chances are there is one somewhere.
If you can manage the trip to get food stamps, and find out where the Housing Authority and Local clinic is in the next few days, you will be well on your way out of your parents house...it'll be a good start.
You won't be homeless...