no no no! you are not stupid! broken hearted, betrayed, sad and angry, that is very understandable. you are most definitely not worthless. He took advantage of a gentle soul, looking get what he could. Perhaps he was lonely and in a bad marriage, maybe just a not very nice person. Regardless, you know now, so grieve for the loss you are going through. Evidently he's a good actor, liar and more.

Get yourself a pillow or something you can beat on, put over your face and yell into and vent! You deserve that. Then, tell yourself that you are beautiful and worthy of respect. You are!
Karen

everyone of us has been had by someone..relationships friends..lol supermarkets with clever marketingetc the list is never ending... so all of us should have stupid on our foreheads..I had a solicitor say to me you dont know me but you can trust me..great they racked up a nice bill..we dont see things because we are emotional not thinking straight..the thing is we learn and its hurtful yes different emotions hit us ..Its becomes stupid if we go back say I use that solicitor again ..I love a saying we dont run backwards we run forwards and thats what you now do.Just go forwards a little wiser...biggest hugs

thanks ........ still feeling totally rejected

i know biggest biggest hugs..your head and you heart will be fighting..one saying hes a dog the other say I still love you..many mixed emotions. like kmhII447 says vent and whats that song Im gonna shake that man right outta my hair..get busy and sigh of relief you are not wasting anymore time..he no doubt did care but life to live others to meet..fun to have.. chocolate to eat..hit a pillow and then find a new handsome fellow..

JokeyJ, you are too young to remember music from the musical South Pacific, hahahaha! But that's absolutely true. RockNMetalChic, you shouldn't feel rejected, you should feel lucky! As hard a lesson as it was to learn, you will be a better person for persevering.

I have a question... are you conflicted about your self image? your DS name, RockNMetalChic, and a CareBear as your profile pic? It's great!

Karen

LOL ..thats the one Im gonna wash that man right outta my hair..from south Pacific..

and send him on his way

I am sorry,I cant imagine the extent of how bad you are feeling.Being deceived is bad enough.But you invested so much of your self in this relationship.Sending him on his way is not the problem but out of your heart is.If you need me just inbox me.If I am online y shoulder is here for you!!

RockNmetal I feel the same as this everyday but i have to try and look through the fog and say...This is not your fault this is because of another person and you cannot control anyones actions other than your own. Most of the time i cant break through the fog but in the back of my head i know its not my fault.

Heres a prayer for you me and everyone else to find a little peace with ourselves.

Sorry to hear about this. This is terrible.

well rock n metal- for the music i like the most, chic cause i'm a chick and carebears- all i could find was tenderheart wanted a grumpy bear lol , thanks for all the feedback and support y'all - much luv and big hugs still healing and hurting and couldn't do it without you......

It is his loss. Understanding you are hurting, but you are a great thing that he lost. I hope you have someone better just like you.

What a jerk this guy is!!!! Don't beat yourself up! When we care about people and are in love with them, we tend to overlook quirky faults, not so great issues they may have, and sometimes this includes bigger things. It is completely his fault for not telling you this, which is so wrong. In relationships we need to overlook the not-so-great stuff in order to accept each other. That is part of love - acceptance. This guy is so wrong for what he has done to you both!!!

Hey, don't feel Rejected - instead, REJECT HIM! He needs to be rejected!!! He wanted to be with you so badly he cheated on his wife, hid everything, lied to you. You are quite the catch, you need to turn this around and look at it differently. You didn't do anything wrong. You are desirable. Hold your head up high. If you knew he was married, you would have never gone down that same path. It really hurts and I'm so sorry!

LOVE STINKS, YA YA, LOVE STINKS!

Joan Jett and the blackhearts..hey jimlucky..