Ok, this sorta started a few years ago apparently, for me it started a few months ago and I only really found out about a lot of it a few nights ago, so I'll start there. I've had this roommate for a few months. I sort of live in this detached unit on the side of a house (this unit used to be a garage but its been converted into a bedroom/storage area) and our sides of the house are separated. My roommate has two kids. Well every morning for the past few months I've heard her arguing on the phone often to the point of tears when the kids aren't around and almost to the point of tears when they are. This has been slowly getting worse and worse. Well one day after I had spent the night at my moms I forgot my key by the time I got home (I take the bus everywhere).She can go unlock my back door so I can get into me room so I knock on her door and she very politely, subtle tries to tell me she cant for some reason but my Dad and his wife (our landlords) gave her two keys to that door. I tried them both and they wouldn't work. She tells me "I'm sorry but right now I'm going through some major problems with my ex and legally as long as I don't let anyone in there's some loophole that allows us me to keep my kids here safely."... I tell her I understand and if there's anything I can do or if she ever needs to talk I'm here for her. Then I ride down into town and pick up my keys from my mom's boyfriend and ride back up. When I get back up I'm about to knock on her door just to let her know I'm there and I'm not some creep trying to gain access to the house, before I even knock she opens, and jumps in surprise.

After the initial shock dies down we start talking. She tells me everything that's been going on, how her abusive ex has tried numerous times to blackmail her into having sex with him pretending to want to get the family back together... (this could go on for a while and there's a lot I shouldn't say). ANYWAYS, there's a number of people out to get her and even her father has for some reason started siding with her ex, accusing her of using drugs (which, having lived with this woman for the past 4 months or so I can honestly say she's been clean the whole time as far as I can tell, when would she have ever had the time to do any of these drugs she's being accused of using?), even her parents are being nasty to her all the sudden and all her friends have turned against her (except a few, she thought I might've too but I proved myself I guess). She invites me over for dinner the next night but I tell her I'm having dinner with my mom again and probably staying the night (this I'm guessing in retrospect was probably a bad decision, I probably should have stuck with her at least for the moral support). Before we go to bed she warns me, be careful who I answer the door for and keep them locked! Otherwise it might void whatever loopholes are protecting her right now.

Well, that was two nights ago. All yesterday and all today I had not been home. I wondered if she was ok but I had other things to worry about too so I kinda didn't think much of it. When I get home tonight (I got home kinda late for me because I was helping out at a club event at school) I notice her car is gone and all her lights are off. Its Friday and her kids are usually with her ex on the weekends but its a little unusual for her to be out at this time on a Friday (not unheard of but still unusual). I kinda just shrug it off thinking she's had a long week, she probably just dropped her kids off and went out with a friend or something, whatever.. So I get all comfy in my back room, get online. I don't really think about it much and about an hour later, out of the corner of my eye I see the shine of a light. At first I thought it was just a lost car pulling around out col de sac but it gets brighter and closer and when I start to hear foot steps I'm like "Holy shit! Their coming!" and right before whoever it is turns the corner into site I toss my laptop aside and bolt to the door, locking both the outside door and my door.. then I hear "Hello, police!" so I open the door and apologize for the sudden hurry to lock the doors.

They ask if I've seen her and I say no, she hasn't come home yet and they tell me her father has reported her missing. I grab my laptop to check and see what her facebook says and there's a picture of some guy playing with her kids as her main pic, she added a few new pics and her status says something like "new family, congrats! I'm going to take a break and go take care of myself. Don't worry, I'm fine.....I wont be on FB in a while..." They don't seem to see how weird this is even after I explain more about her troubles with her ex but I think its kinda creepy.

After the police leave, I decide to investigate a little (now pretty creeped out). I grab my own flashlight and wander over to her front door, I can kinda lean over the railing and look into her living room and see a little of her kitchen and dining room, A LOT of her stuff is gone (but not all of it), there's two pairs of shoes outside the door too.. I wander back into the area between my side and her's (the washroom) and there's a load of laudry still wet in the washer.. I'm like "ok, this is getting creepier. I don't know who the guy in her pic is but if its her ex and considering her status, something weird/bad might be going on!"

I'm not sure what to do. I'm kinda worried about her! I mean she was going through some pretty major issues last time we spoke but she didn't say a word to me or my dad and his wife about moving, she packed up her living room but didn't finish her laundry, and there's some guy on her facebook profile pic and a status message, which unless you didn't know what was going on, sounds kinda creepy in combination with that pic... any ideas?