I am a 42 years old female , member of alanon group.. I was born in Europe but my alcoholic and mentally ill husband brought me to US , Masachusetts where I ve been living in the same apartment with him since... I been trying to save this marriage for 12 years but now I am ready to give up on it especially because I graduated college in US and I have an ok office job now full time too 15 bucks and hour to start with 7months of employment for now.. I could move out anytime from the same apartment I live with him but the thought that it would easier if I get a room mate from alanon (who I would most probably be able to trust and share rent responsibilities with too)would be wise and more realistic decision I think.. .I am lili.hunt at yahoo dot com ... anybody from alanon MA.. feel free to reach me for whatever reasons ... if your reason is just to talk and get rid of your stress that is fine too... if you are female living in MA and you are looking for a room mate even better...excuse my not that great grammar please...