I guess I am leaving a reply.....not sure about this site or the directions yet.
So my son is relapsing or getting into violent behavior or both. My husband is quite upset about the whole thing but my AlAnon time has paid off. I am sleeping fine, and though I am sorry and disappointed, andthe future for him seems way less good, I am this time taking care of my own life and don't allow myself to worry about what his path is. His choices are just that, and I must take care of me now, and not go down the road I did when I was so embroiled in all his issues and all my suffering. I really was suffering when I found AlAnon. Ten years there is really helping me stay on my side of the street. Anger; not there. I have stayed collected so far. I need to keep healing myself, and that is my job.
Sounds like you have been taking care of yourself. Healthy Detachment and it benefits us.
I don't like what they have done to dailystrength at all but I'll keep posting when I can.
Same here about the changes. The only thing that's better so far is it doesn't seem as slow.
And I hope you are taking care of yourself too, and your health issues. Of course you are. All the best.
Thanks for your post. Today I see the oncologist and hear what he has to say.
Still getting used to the "new and improved" dailystrength site. Sending love and support.
I saw some on your journal. Sending prayer. Son is better but husband took a long time to heal from it; that was harder to take than anything in this event, which seems to be over. Hoping for the best for you, and as I said, praying.
So my son is relapsing or getting into violent behavior or both. My husband is quite upset about the whole thing but my AlAnon time has paid off. I am sleeping fine, and though I am sorry and disappointed, andthe future for him seems way less good, I am this time taking care of my own life and don't allow myself to worry about what his path is. His choices are just that, and I must take care of me now, and not go down the road I did when I was so embroiled in all his issues and all my suffering. I really was suffering when I found AlAnon. Ten years there is really helping me stay on my side of the street. Anger; not there. I have stayed collected so far. I need to keep healing myself, and that is my job.
I don't like what they have done to dailystrength at all but I'll keep posting when I can.
And I hope you are taking care of yourself too, and your health issues. Of course you are. All the best.
Still getting used to the "new and improved" dailystrength site. Sending love and support.