I was on vacation and my girlfriend drank too much and didn't wake up for hours. She thinks she may have been drugged but she drank too much to really remember. I didn't get all the story since I was on vacation and her friends took her to detoxify. I got on the plane right away but, they thought if they didn't take her now she wouldn't go. I am alone right now and I hope she knows I support her. I just didn't have all the right words at the time. This is stressful not know how she feels!
It's not easy, is it? The emotions tied up with the disease of alcohlism (or even w/problem drinkers)are all consuming! I've found, through the help of Al-Anon, that keeping the focus on me and knowing I am powerless over people, places and things, helps my life stay more serene.
Hugs to you,
Eileen