My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 3 months now. Our first month was fine. We got along together but when he was hired to a company which requires him to work for at least 14 hours a day, he has no time for me already. Since then, he became so busy. I truly am disheartened of what’s happening. I tried to understand him but every time we talk, he’ll just say that his work is more important now. Every time he says that, a foreign feeling would come up in me and think that he might be flirting with somebody else in his office. What should I do?
Hmm this seems like a difficult situation. I’ll admit I’ve never been in a situation like this but I’ll give you my best advice. Try talking to your boyfriend about how his comments about his work being more important make you feel. Perhaps he will be able to put this feeling to rest or maybey he will confirm that something is happening. Wait for a moment when he is not rushed or stressed. Another idea is if you know anyone else in his office ask that person about his behavior at the office. I hope these ideas can help. Let me know if I can give you more advice.