a few years ago when i was about 17 my dad had moved out the first time for a year to fix my parents marrige and then a year after that things seems bette between them they would meet and we would be a famly hanging out a few weeks before he moved back in and then things started to get bad again and so about a week ago my dad gave me the news that he had found a place and he was moving out next week. i have choosen not to be around when he moves his things he mad us kids help move his things last time and it was just tramatizing and i wont do that again. so i dont know what to the future holds i am just ready for them to get divorced and moved on from eachother but they have seperated once i want things over neither of them are obviously happy my dad has found happyniss elswear in another woman but he clames to just be friend and he isnt having an afair with her becase there not having sex which to me if you are spending time with another woman other then your wife to me is cheating. but that is just me how i am. so i want them to seperate last time when i fout out he was movign out i was hurt badley i had a severe panic attack and i thoguh i was going to pass out but the last year or so things just never felt rigth and its been about a year since the affair started with this woman the one i knew about there have been about 3 others he brougth her over to our hoouse with her kid to spend the 4th of july with us just her it was very disturbing to us and from that point on he was alwasy with her or at home txint her or emailing i want them to be done with i am actualy happy he is leaving i want him to go. the tention in this house is so severe you could cut it with a knife. he decided to take a vacation for a sports even to hawaii of all places and his girlfrfiend is going there as well he clams there at seperate hotels but i dont trust anything he says anymore at all that entire situation hs to totaly shady. the way he is doing this and handling this is not good at all in my opinion. but ive known for a few days now hes moving out and wont be here when he moves out i just think ive matured and grown up since last time i dont know if there gunna acutaly get devorced this time who knows i wish though. for the sake of our famly and my sisters and brother.