Ok so I’m 21 and just found out today that my parents are getting divorced. I could really use some help understanding it all. I’m so confused and feel like it’s my fault. They were fine when I was living with them but now that I’m on my own they are getting divorced. I’m so confused and hurt. Any one that can help please feel free. I guess they are getting divorce in order to save their friendship but that makes no sense to me. I really would like some help understanding. Please help.
Addie, I'm so sorry no one has responded to this until now! My parents separated halfway through my senior year in highschool and my world broke that day.... I had no idea what to do or even how to cope with what had happened. That was 6 years ago now and I think what has helped me the most has been choosing to forgive my parents. I was hurt by both of them in different ways. I hope this helps!